Y'know what I can't stand? Laziness. Even worse? Laziness coupled with a victim complex.
"I make shitty decisions because I'm too lazy to do shit for myself. When the consequences of those decisions come down, it's someone else's fault my life is garbage."
Here's some solid life advice for everyone: don't date (or worse, marry) someone that has a shitty work ethic. Relationships are work. Lazy people don't want to work, which means they won't put in the effort needed to make a relationship thrive. They'll sit back and soak up attention wherever they can get it, take credit, place blame, cheat, and probably lie. They're entitled, negative, lack goals, never get anything done, spend way too much time on social media, etc. They're fucking leeches and dead weight. We all know the kind. At some point in the working world, we've encountered this type of coworker.
Marisa isn't part of the workforce. She's on the welfare-for-life plan. Her official occupation is breeder. She moves from host to host leeching as much as she can. She's never held a job or paid taxes. She's a burden to her friends, family and society. She's had four kids by three men and has no plans on stopping that gravy train. Even now, while she lives with her sister rent free, she's not filling out job applications so she can lessen the hardship on her sister. She's filling out dating profiles two weeks after leaving her husband. She's not even divorced yet. I can only imagine what her sister must be thinking. At some point she's going to get angry that the "shit talking" we've been doing is true and she's been enabling the "Free Loader" as Natalie calls her. Marisa has her phone in her hand for all of her waking hours. She's a pig and doesn't pick up after herself or her children. She doesn't do laundry and doesn't bother dressing her children. Her laziness is so oppressive it's bordering on neglect. These aren't things that I'm making up, these are facts that can be observed through the incessant snapshots and videos she provides on a daily basis. Her mother wants to come down on me like I'm the bad guy for speaking out about it.
WHY THE FUCK DOES A STRANGER HAVE TO SPEAK UP ABOUT IT? WHY ISN'T HER FAMILY SAYING ANYTHING? WHY ARE THEY HELPING HER?
How has enabling her helped her in any way? How has she improved her life in the last 9 years? Has she held a job? Paid off a debt? Stood on her own AT ALL? When has she ever acted like an adult? Her mother wants to smack her gums about "high school drama" but continues to enable her mentally high-school aged daughter. Pay her phone bill, buy her clothes, feed her, drive her around... do you do her fucking laundry too, Kim?
How many times have you witnessed her children crying, "Mommy, Mommy, Moooommmmyyyyy" and shes' staring at her phone? I'm starting to wonder if she truly loves her children or if they're just a means to an end. She certainly didn't have any qualms over leaving the older two behind. But those ones don't earn her any more money, do they? The younger ones though... they still count for government checks. Maybe even child support if she has any luck in court.
Kim will never admit to this. That would be admitting her own failure and we can't have that now can we? I wonder how long her husband-to-be will tolerate the bullshit. How many husbands has she burned through herself? We can't say Marisa doesn't come by her welfare state of mind honestly!
Fucking laziness. Laziness coupled with a victim complex and perpetuated by enablers.
Don't get pissed at me for doing something about it. You idiots clearly aren't fixing anything. Sierra should thank me for this blog. She might actually get her house cleaned for a couple weeks.
Oh, and Marisa? Put some fucking socks on your kids at least. It's December. No wonder they've had fevers and snot noses for weeks. Jesus fucking Christ. The fuck is wrong with you all?
I am the “Husband-to-be” and I feel there is a bit of slight misinformation being said here. First let’s address, Natalie. The problem was that Natalie’s daughter was abusive to Marisa. No knock on Natalie, she at the time worked a lot of hours. Now I already know the Anti-Marisa campaign will have lots of different explanations for this, doesn’t change regardless of perspective. Also Natalie stole Marisa’s children’s gift cards. This was actually proven.
ReplyDeleteNow let’s address the marriage. What marriage? No paperwork filed, no licenses drawn. I.E. no marriage, thus no divorce.
Now let’s address Kim. A working single mother who raised three very different daughters, while running her own business. One daughter who last her father very young, and one daughter with a lot of different REAL medical issues. Now let’s address “marriages.” Actually let’s address her ONE marriage. It did end, but because of Domestic Abuse. Guess by your standard, she is a lesser person because she chose not to be an abused wife.
To say Marisa has problems is an understatement. But she is actually trying to move on and actually get herself together. Part of the reason she able to start to get herself together is she is around people who are not enabling her and actually making her get her problems solved.
Also I know there is something being about legal matters involved. I made a key statement earlier, no paperwork filed.
Lastly feel free to “mock me.” I’m an adult. It is questionable if you actually are. Given that you have a blog that decidedly meant to bully and abuse someone does not live anywhere near you. And in FACT have never even met. And yes, that doesn’t make you the “bad guy.”